Unfaithful Wife Renders Husband Impotent In Lagos
A 67-year-old pensioner, Asimiyu
Olayinka, has pleaded with the
Alakuko Customary Court in Lagos
yesterday to dissolve his 26-year-old
marriage to his wife Fatimo, who he
accused of adultery.
The last time I slept with my wife was
the last time my manhood functioned.
On that day, my wife gave me a special
treatment when I returned from work
which led us to our bedroom.
Surprisingly, during lovemaking, I had a
terrible attack. I fell from the bed and
excreted on my body. I thought I was
going to die because it was like magun
(charm) was placed on me. As I speak,
it’s been three years since I slept with
any woman. I am impotent.”
He said: “I married her solely because
my second wife was troublesome. I
wasn’t even bothered she had two sons
from her previous marriages because
when I met her, she was the best
woman in the world. She took care of
the seven children I had from my
previous marriages. The problem started
when I retired in 2005. She stopped
listening to me likewise our children.
Our first daughter dropped out of
secondary school because I asked her to
repeat a class and her mother was not
in support.
“My wife is fond of entertaining men at
the frontage of our house which I am
strongly against. At my age, I still fetch
water and wash my clothes. I never
believed she could engage in extra
marital sex until I saw her walk out
from a hotel with a co-landlord in our
neighbourhood. She was shocked to see
me but I greeted her. It’s been one year
since I stopped asking about her
movement. It is painful I can’t do
anything as a man. I don’t even know
the reason she left her previous
marriages. There cann’t be peace in our
home except we part ways.”
Mrs Olayinka, a 54-year-old food vendor,
described her husband as violent.
She said: “Since we got married, I have
never achieved anything. He never
bought me a wrapper but he complains
each time I am in a new outfit. I am
surprised he said he is impotent
because the last time we slept with
each other was February 2014. The
night he fell from the bed and
defecated, he was drunk. I washed his
faeces in the midnight. He didn’t see
me in a hotel with another man. I really
don’t know why he is saying all this.
“I was even ashamed when he said he
caught me in a hotel with another man
in the presence of our children. My
husband is violent. Whenever he is
ready to sleep with me, he beats me
with a towel. He is the landlord of the
house we live but he doesn’t cater for
our children’s upkeep. There was a time
he disconnected the light of the room I
sleep for a year. It was until my first
son invited four elderly men to plead
with him that he reconnected it. He
gives me N600 to prepare soup for
myself and the 10 children. We still had
issues before we came to court. I will
say he was smart enough to bring our
case to court because I am also fed up. I
just want N200, 000 compensation from
him and I want him to take
responsibilities of our last daughter’s
education.”
Their first son, Abdul’razaq, who was in
court said: “My father is always drunk.
This issue has been on for over 10
years. There was a time my father told
me my mother was committing
adultery; I had to monitor her
movement for two days but there was no
evidence. There is unity among the
children but our parents keep fighting. I
will be glad if the court reconciles them
because this is the time our father
needs care.”
The marriage produced three children.
The court’s president, Chief Awos
Awosola, gave Olayinka two days to re-
consider a divorce. He ordered him to
rent an apartment for his wife and to
give her N350, 000 as compensation.
The case continues tomorrow.
Olayinka, has pleaded with the
Alakuko Customary Court in Lagos
yesterday to dissolve his 26-year-old
marriage to his wife Fatimo, who he
accused of adultery.
The last time I slept with my wife was
the last time my manhood functioned.
On that day, my wife gave me a special
treatment when I returned from work
which led us to our bedroom.
Surprisingly, during lovemaking, I had a
terrible attack. I fell from the bed and
excreted on my body. I thought I was
going to die because it was like magun
(charm) was placed on me. As I speak,
it’s been three years since I slept with
any woman. I am impotent.”
He said: “I married her solely because
my second wife was troublesome. I
wasn’t even bothered she had two sons
from her previous marriages because
when I met her, she was the best
woman in the world. She took care of
the seven children I had from my
previous marriages. The problem started
when I retired in 2005. She stopped
listening to me likewise our children.
Our first daughter dropped out of
secondary school because I asked her to
repeat a class and her mother was not
in support.
“My wife is fond of entertaining men at
the frontage of our house which I am
strongly against. At my age, I still fetch
water and wash my clothes. I never
believed she could engage in extra
marital sex until I saw her walk out
from a hotel with a co-landlord in our
neighbourhood. She was shocked to see
me but I greeted her. It’s been one year
since I stopped asking about her
movement. It is painful I can’t do
anything as a man. I don’t even know
the reason she left her previous
marriages. There cann’t be peace in our
home except we part ways.”
Mrs Olayinka, a 54-year-old food vendor,
described her husband as violent.
She said: “Since we got married, I have
never achieved anything. He never
bought me a wrapper but he complains
each time I am in a new outfit. I am
surprised he said he is impotent
because the last time we slept with
each other was February 2014. The
night he fell from the bed and
defecated, he was drunk. I washed his
faeces in the midnight. He didn’t see
me in a hotel with another man. I really
don’t know why he is saying all this.
“I was even ashamed when he said he
caught me in a hotel with another man
in the presence of our children. My
husband is violent. Whenever he is
ready to sleep with me, he beats me
with a towel. He is the landlord of the
house we live but he doesn’t cater for
our children’s upkeep. There was a time
he disconnected the light of the room I
sleep for a year. It was until my first
son invited four elderly men to plead
with him that he reconnected it. He
gives me N600 to prepare soup for
myself and the 10 children. We still had
issues before we came to court. I will
say he was smart enough to bring our
case to court because I am also fed up. I
just want N200, 000 compensation from
him and I want him to take
responsibilities of our last daughter’s
education.”
Their first son, Abdul’razaq, who was in
court said: “My father is always drunk.
This issue has been on for over 10
years. There was a time my father told
me my mother was committing
adultery; I had to monitor her
movement for two days but there was no
evidence. There is unity among the
children but our parents keep fighting. I
will be glad if the court reconciles them
because this is the time our father
needs care.”
The marriage produced three children.
The court’s president, Chief Awos
Awosola, gave Olayinka two days to re-
consider a divorce. He ordered him to
rent an apartment for his wife and to
give her N350, 000 as compensation.
The case continues tomorrow.
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