10 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR LECTURER TAKE YOU AS A FRIEND
10 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR LECTURER TAKE YOU AS A FRIEND
My experience with so many lecturers and what i have heard from them in person has made me design so strategies that has being helping me till date about being treated well by my teachers and lecturers cause most of them take me as friends, this is not automatic tho and no money bags involved just step by step skills which will be revealed now... Get your stool is time to get that lecturer to be your friend:
(1) GREET HIM/HER WITH A SPECIAL TONE: Don't just greet shabbily,greet him well infact if possible prostrate, thats not actually needed but make it different from others, like if your friends just said "good morning" you say "good morning sir, how was your night". Note the "sir" and "how was your night" . this gives him that impression that you are different and he will treat you as such.
(2) NEVER TALK WHEN HE IS TALKING: Mehn this is a teachers, lecturers and student relationship killer, you are talking when he is talking? You are a goner. Never talk back or talk when he is talking to you or everyone in class, its very disrespectful and no elderly person will take that from you, remember you want him as a friend.
(3) NEVER TALK ILL ABOUT HIM: This is simply because the king has gat eye every where ( ogi ri leti). He hearing your bad comment about him will turn him down against you. Dont even talk when people are bad mouthing him.
(4) LET HIM KNOW WHO YOU REALLY ARE: Never pretend you are what you are not e.g pretending to be gentle when you are not . actually you may be sober sometimes but not to pretend when you know he is around cause if you do any he got to know one way or the other he will be disappointed and may change his impression he has about you..
Others coming later.. Enjoying it? Why not share with friends.
Have fun practicing
(1) GREET HIM/HER WITH A SPECIAL TONE: Don't just greet shabbily,greet him well infact if possible prostrate, thats not actually needed but make it different from others, like if your friends just said "good morning" you say "good morning sir, how was your night". Note the "sir" and "how was your night" . this gives him that impression that you are different and he will treat you as such.
(2) NEVER TALK WHEN HE IS TALKING: Mehn this is a teachers, lecturers and student relationship killer, you are talking when he is talking? You are a goner. Never talk back or talk when he is talking to you or everyone in class, its very disrespectful and no elderly person will take that from you, remember you want him as a friend.
(3) NEVER TALK ILL ABOUT HIM: This is simply because the king has gat eye every where ( ogi ri leti). He hearing your bad comment about him will turn him down against you. Dont even talk when people are bad mouthing him.
(4) LET HIM KNOW WHO YOU REALLY ARE: Never pretend you are what you are not e.g pretending to be gentle when you are not . actually you may be sober sometimes but not to pretend when you know he is around cause if you do any he got to know one way or the other he will be disappointed and may change his impression he has about you..
Others coming later.. Enjoying it? Why not share with friends.
Have fun practicing
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